I always admired those amazing women I was seeing around me.
They had a certain special aura doing what they liked, with so much energy and passion.
They had something in their lives that made them so whole, and I don't mean a relationship.
If you want to be madly in love with yourself and with life, first, you need to have the time to get to know yourself, and I don't mean on a superficial level, I mean dig deep down the core of your soul and see what's in there. You need alone time. Only you and your thoughts.
I had a big problem because I was not comfortable to stay by myself, I always avoided the discussions from my head when I was alone. So, I was always surrounded by people, noise,etc. Just to keep them silent.
It will be hard, but not impossible. It will hurt like hell, because you will find buried dreams and hopes, a lot of regrets, heartache. But, after they will come up on the surface, that space will clear up, and it will start whispering to you. At first it will be so hard to hear, because you never listened to yourself before. But, with a bit of work, you will start listening. And you WILL know, exactly what is your purpose in your own life. And you will become strong, whole, passionate. That woman that you see and admire, it WILL be you.
You will feel things more accurate, more authentic.
You will attract similar people to your life, and will get rid of those who are no longer serving you.
You won't need a relationship to make you complete, you will be complete. And a partner will be an equal,not your live saving raft.
No one likes that, is not sexy!
You'll see love with more detachment.
I didn't thought i would say this but I did. I was so clinging to the concept of possessive love, now I am seeing it so clear.
The authentic love is, I think, a bonus. The cherry on the top.
If you put a cherry on top of nothing, it would be just a single cherry. A single cherry cannot make you happy.
You need to start learning how to be happy by yourself, so do it. Stay alone, meditate, and start listening to your heart.
Love,
Sofia
They had a certain special aura doing what they liked, with so much energy and passion.
They had something in their lives that made them so whole, and I don't mean a relationship.
If you want to be madly in love with yourself and with life, first, you need to have the time to get to know yourself, and I don't mean on a superficial level, I mean dig deep down the core of your soul and see what's in there. You need alone time. Only you and your thoughts.
I had a big problem because I was not comfortable to stay by myself, I always avoided the discussions from my head when I was alone. So, I was always surrounded by people, noise,etc. Just to keep them silent.
It will be hard, but not impossible. It will hurt like hell, because you will find buried dreams and hopes, a lot of regrets, heartache. But, after they will come up on the surface, that space will clear up, and it will start whispering to you. At first it will be so hard to hear, because you never listened to yourself before. But, with a bit of work, you will start listening. And you WILL know, exactly what is your purpose in your own life. And you will become strong, whole, passionate. That woman that you see and admire, it WILL be you.
You will feel things more accurate, more authentic.
You will attract similar people to your life, and will get rid of those who are no longer serving you.
You won't need a relationship to make you complete, you will be complete. And a partner will be an equal,not your live saving raft.
No one likes that, is not sexy!
You'll see love with more detachment.
I didn't thought i would say this but I did. I was so clinging to the concept of possessive love, now I am seeing it so clear.
The authentic love is, I think, a bonus. The cherry on the top.
If you put a cherry on top of nothing, it would be just a single cherry. A single cherry cannot make you happy.
You need to start learning how to be happy by yourself, so do it. Stay alone, meditate, and start listening to your heart.
Love,
Sofia
